Men date you and then they tend to get bored sometimes if you are always available at their “beck and call”. Try to pace yourself and give them a chance to show their interest also. Kinda like a dance. He takes one step, you take one step. If you are doing all the stepping, you’re dancing solo, lol. But, hey, some never notice until it becomes tiring and maybe too late.Occasionally, you’ll have those rare cases where you met someone and you’re with them everyday from that day forward. This may be feel like the best scenario ever but before getting caught up and whisked away in emotion, take those first couple of days to ground yourself and take inventory of who you are, who they are and if that’s what will really work for you long term. Then brace yourself! And, understand, that there is so much about this person you don’t know yet. So, you musn’t assume that just because you feel it’s perfect that your beau is the perfect person. Who knows what you may learn about who this man really is. No one is perfect, so understand that he may have flaws that will surprise you, upset you and even disappoint you, if he is human (you might have yourself a robot), lol. You have to “know when to hold’em, know when to roll’em, know when to walk away, know when to run”(Lyrics from “The Gambler”), lol! Be cautious but not unrealistic.Most Importantly: WOMEN never doubt yourselves! Know your worth! (“Priceless…far above rubies”). Know what you deserve and never settle. Don’t let insecurity eat you up. Always, put God first. In Him, there is no competition. Therefore, you shouldn’t have to worry about the next woman. Do you! No one can compete with who God made you to be. There is no match, so be confident.

I feel like I married my dream guy. We have had problems, but I know ultimately God made him just for me. He is my best friend and I love a man that is respected. Guys will do only what you allow them to do. That’s why it’s important to get to know a guy and date for a while before you decide to take it to the next phase cause once that’s crossed, there is no turning back.

Tip: Expect more..