It's better to be a good nobody than an evil somebody

If there is one thing I can’t stand, it’s someone that’s not a person of their word. But to add my disclaimer, anyone that has done anything to me, to include not keeping their word, I have always forgiven them as long as they come to me and sincerely apologize. My friends call me stupid sometimes but that’s just my heart forgiving. I love people. I just don’t always like their ways. Love is ever forgiving. But, taking advantage is not love, right?

If I say I’m gonna do something, you can count on me to do it, no doubt. If I didn’t follow thru on my word to you, I wouldn’t be able to sleep. For instance, I could never owe anyone money and be able to sleep at night (thank God this has never occurred but if it did I would make it priority over anything else). Some people just assume that you have it but they never know your circumstances. 

I also don’t appreciate when people don’t take your time seriously. (Time is money). I learned this from one of my best friends. If we were going somewhere and I’d forget, she’d be there and super upset if I forgot. Sometimes, I’m a la la carefree person and may miss an appointment or two. In the past year, I organized my business schedule to clear three days to accommodate clients only for them to have cancelled at the last minute. It’s a lesson learned because now I require a deposit before I book a big job that will tie up my day (…lessons of life being too nice). From that, I know not to say I’ll be somewhere and not show (late sometimes but I’m showing up).

Moral of the story is respect people’s time(even when someone takes the time to do something nice for you) and money and most of all friendship. It’s not worth losing friends over being inconsiderate and unappreciative, right?

Tip of the day: Credibility is everything (that’s what credit is about)

Wearing: LV bag, CL heels, James Perse t-shirt(so comfy),J brand pants, Sweet Rags custom made vest.

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