There are few people in this world that I know God sent them here to be angels to others. My mom has been an angel to so many people in her life. I don’t know how she did it but she never would turn anyone down when they asked her for something, especially if it was a necessity. I know part of my blessings are from her good doings (planting good seeds) to others. When I was younger my mom would hunt for bargains every moment she had free to purchase things for her family back in Belize or anyone that was less fortunate. She never wanted to give others used things. Her motto, “everyone deserves something new” because she knew what it felt like to be less fortunate when she was a child. I would go shopping with my dad and come home with beautiful items that I adored and she would say, now pick one so we can give it to a little girl that has never had a pretty dress. That always made me smile and changed my mind when I would think, how about we give them one of my old dresses:). Eventually when she wasn’t able to do things the way she use to…poof all the calls disappeared. Funny huh!

Now like I always say there’s a good and bad to everything so here it goes with this scenario. My mom was so focused on others that we barely ever spent quality time together. I would admire her still because I knew she was doing good for others, but my heart ached when I would want us to do something special. As I started to get older I began to see how people would only call her when they needed something but her heart was so giving she could never turn anyone down. I remember when one of my so called friends called her crying and saying she would be put out of her house, my mother immediately paid her mortgage but come to find out the girl went shopping with the money.  My mom has helped so many people that it has rubbed off on me. I help so much only for people to use me as well. But even when people say I’m naive or a sucker for a sad story, I always remember that it came from my heart so whan people’s conniving intentions have planned when coming to prey on the good will definitely be revealed. Also once you find out who these people are, they proceed to their next victim and don’t realize they are planting bad seeds. So if your a giver don’t focus on those type of people too much. Eventually they’ll come to a dead end and will regret using the only people that had their back. Keep helping.

I am writing this to say don’t call people only when you need something. If you do you are considered a user. Furthermore if someone is  kind enough to help me in a time of need I would cherish this person for the rest of my life. I wouldn’t be able to probably return the favor on exact terms as what they’ve done for me, but I’d show them I appreciate them and not only call when I needed something. 

Thought of the day: God bless my mom:)

Wearing: H&M blousse, Gucci heels, F21 belt.