There’s nothing greater and more humbling to me than when a person apologizes. My husband taught me that there is no shame in apologizing. If he does something wrong he’s the first to apologize and I love that about him. On my latest post there was a little bit of drama concerning one of my readers. I began to pray for her and not even 24 hours later she was on here apologizing for her actions. I respect and admire  her for that because she didn’t have to. She could have just went about her life as though it never happened, but she checked herself and that’s what life’s about. None of us are perfect and when making mistakes it’s important that we learn from them. When you feel like you’re at a dead end, you can always turn around.

This is perfect time to talk about how to deal with negativity. When someone ses or does something that’s hurtful to you in your face or behind your back, there’s no need to retaliate and fight a negative with a negative. I know this from experience. I’ve had good friends and complete strangers be mean to me for no apparent reason, but I ignore them and stay away from them. I’ve also learned not to take things so personal. There are obstacles thrown our way in all forms, so I just see it as another hurdle to jump over, furthermore I know when I’m tested and I act with kindness, I always get rewarded from God. Plus that’s just who I am naturally. When a person is intentionally being mean you gotta wonder is that person truly happy? Why would anyone that was happy want to hurt someone else. That alone is punishment because they’ll drown in their own misery and if we pray for these people they’ll eventually come around:)

Remember when someone ses something to hurt your feelings true or not, ignore them, pray for them and let them deal with their issues and I promise you they’ll eventually revert to kindness because they’ll say “I’ve done everything to push this person’s buttons and they just won’t bite”. They might not apologize, but know you’ll still be rewarded when you brush it off , act with kindness and forgive them without their permission..

Tip of the day: Good always outweighs evil:) Trust me…

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